When life gets to be too much, I can start to feel a little bit overwhelming. Previously, when I was working, I thought being a stay at home mom would be easy and more relaxing. But I was completely wrong. Cooking, baking, cleaning, washing, gardening, shopping, sewing projects, and the most of all, taking care of the little one. No job in this world is easy. Being a parent is not easy. Being a mom is not easy. Handling a toddler is way more challenging than handling a crying newborn.
Recently, Adam started to throw things to me and everywhere, banging his head to the wall, refused to play alone, and he wanted to be cling to me 24/7. Ish. He started to whine too.. a long and loud one. And the only thing that could stop him is to carry him around. He is such a baby! Ish. So all of this new behaviors, plus the non-stop chores, made me feel overwhelming. Sigh. And I got teary sometimes.
So how should I keep up with this. Going to the spa? I don't have that much fortune to go there everyday. It had to be an everyday things and here's few of it..
- I find it relaxing to cook and bake. But it had to be in slow down mode. During a quite night. With my favorite songs as background noise in low tune. It would turn out better if the baking result is on my side. not on the dustbin side.
- Brushing the toilet's bowl helped me ground too. I mean cleaning. I let all those frustrations out while brushing/sweeping/vacuuming the floor hard. It let me slow down, and I feel rejuvenated and refreshed after that. Knowing that I'd burned my anger and calories out, and my floor is sparkling shine now.
- As I'm writing this post, I love the calmness of the surrounding of it, and I get to write without feeling rushed. Blogging is relaxing too.
- Probably the most important thing I do to keep it up from getting too much is getting myself out of the house. I didn't get to do it often during weekdays. Blame the weather, off course and to those who contributing to the global warming problem. But taking a short stroll with Adam would certainly bring joy and keep me sane.
- Reading calms me too. But it's hard to not to fall asleep while doing it.
Those are the little things I do to make it all less stress. I just need some quite time to think and feel rejuvenated. And I'm back to normal me.
What do you guys do to slow down life and less stress?
On the other note, my daily routine had to be adjusted due to Adam's new 'peel', so starting from today onward, I'll be preparing Adam's lunch early in the morning. Last night, BGO suggested me to prepare Adam's lunch in the morning, so I won't be kelam kabut preparing it at noon, with Adam besides me, whining like forever. Ugh..
He woke me up early, so I could take my own sweet time preparing it. He was right! It's a good move, plus I got to bake early. I turned on the radio, and started to prepare Adam's lunch slowly. It took me an hour and a half to re-heated and served BGO's breakfast- curry mee and prepared Adam's lunch- mini hamburger.. I baked the mini buns and seared the beef patties myself!! :D pardon the bragging, it was my first time baking it actually..huhu mini buns recipe will be shared in next post.. this post is lengthy enough..
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| The mini buns, fresh from the oven. |
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| Adam loves to blow candles hehe |
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| More photos of Adam |
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| The Adam. |
After finish with the cleaning etc, I brought Adam for a short stroll to the nearest park. I took the camera with me, and taking those snaps brought some joys to me. Another good way to loosen the mind-photographing.
A good mood to start my Friday.. how's your Friday?